Coaching – Top 5 reasons a Nonprofit Leader Needs a Coach

 

What is a Coach? Therapist, Motivator, Person who holds you Accountable?  No, a coach is a person who helps you use your own tools and resources to accomplish your goals.  You have everything you need to solve a problem – sometimes you just need a guide to help you uncover your superpower. 

What is Coaching?

Coaching is defined as “building awareness that empowers choice and leads to change” Coaching can lead to significant improvement in personal and professional development. Coaching can elevate your entire organization.  Coaching looks different for everyone.  Some have a coach for a few sessions, others may work with a coach for a few years.  You don’t have to decide that now.

How Can Coaching Help a Nonprofit Leader? 

How can coaching help you as a nonprofit leader?

    1. Being a leader in nonprofit organization can be a lonely job.  Most of the time you cannot share with your Board the things you are not confident about. 

    1. Your colleagues may be competitors.  A coach can be a confidential partner to help you move forward when no one else can be that for you.

    1. You can open your thoughts to new ideas by looking at something differently

    1. The mission of your organization is important and it impacts those your serve.  Sometimes you need someone outside of the organization to talk with.

    1. Coaching elevates you and your organization

Many new Executive Directors have never done that job before.  You can be thrown into situations that are very new and there is no one to train you.  An Emerging Leader can benefit from a coach to learn new skills.

How to Pay For a Coach

Coaching is Professional Development.  Board members want you to grow as a professional.  It is appropriate to ask for a coach as a part of your professional development.  It can be put in the budget of your organization, a Board member may donate to support or you can pay for it yourself.

Fit

Fit is important for a coach.  A great Coach doesn’t necessarily know everything about your job or life, but they are curious and can ask the questions that make you think differently about a situation.  That is when true change happens.

Find a Coach, talk with several, wait until you find the person that challenges you to be your best.  

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What I Learned About Being a Leader from My Dog

I have a two year old Labrador named Finn.  He is the first dog I have raised on my own.  I used positive reinforcement to potty train him, sit, lay down, etc.  He does so many things well, but he is definitely in charge and I needed to fix that. He weighs 85 pounds and he can pull me around on a leash. He or I were going to get hurt if I didn’t so something more.

We Needed Training  

We had a close call that scared me and I decided I needed some additional training.  I, needed additional training.  I am sure you have heard that dogs need an Alpha.  You can find a lot of information to support or deny that.  It became very clear to me through the trainer I chose that I was not the Alpha dog.  

I had heard that term, but I didn’t really know what it meant.  I feed him, walk him, love him and take care of his needs.  The trainer actually said I was a pushover.  What? I wasn’t the Alpha and Finn knew it. 

The trainer was an Alpha.  Finn reacted to him so much differently than he reacted to me. I saw what a change in my behavior could do for Finn and me.

Leadership and Dogs

I have been a leader throughout my career.  I have led teams as an Executive Director for nonprofit organizations of all sizes.  I have led the team and individuals to success. 

I would consider myself a leader, but I never liked the word Boss.  (Sounds like Alpha, huh?).  So when the trainer said I needed to lead, I thought, OK. I’ve got this. 

But the way I lead teams is not what a dog needs.  He doesn’t want consensus building, he doesn’t get a say because I know what is best for him as a dog.  But, can you really do that with people?  No.  

So I never learned how to be an Alpha as a leader of my team. I lead by example. I build teams who know that I will be there for them. I helped align their success, I helped make hard decisions for the greater good, I kept the needs of the team above all else.

What Does Your Team (or Dog) Need?  

My dog needs someone to teach him discipline.  He needs help to be the best dog he can be.  He needs tough love.  He needs me to put his greater good above all else.  Do I need to use different tools to do that for him?  Yes.  But I can do it.  I can be an Alpha dog for him and a great leader of people also.  

What kind of leader are you?  Are you the same with people as you are with your dog? 

PS. I’ll keep you posted on how Finn and I are doing.

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Lonely Job

As an Executive Director I often felt alone. I couldn’t share my concerns or problems with staff or the Board. Volunteers may take my concerns the wrong way and my colleagues in the community could be competing with our organization. Lonely. I needed a sounding board, a safe place. Someone I could share my triumphs and fears with knowing I wouldn’t be judged just cheered on or cheered up. I needed a Coach! Someone on the sidelines who was cheering even if I missed the ball. Who had a water bottle and snacks and one eye on me all the time.

Since I never had that person beyond the many mentors who gave me great support along the way. I want to be THAT person. It’s my Second Act and now I can provide the cheering, encouraging, snack and water toting that every Executive Director needs to be their best. Call me, I have my chair, sunscreen and hat ready to root for you from the sidelines.

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The Executive Director – a hard job to love

The job of an Executive Director of a nonprofit organization is the hardest job one will ever do.  True? Sure feels like it.  I have had people who have experienced many types of jobs (for profit and non profit) say it is true. I cannot compare.  An Executive Director has many lines of input, but the accountability stays with them.  Who provides input? A Board who means well, but doesn’t always know the true nature of the work of an Executive Director.  Volunteers, who mean well and have passion for the mission, but may not have a full view of the role. And often a national organization with a structured Home office staff who can have a lot of input, but not much accountability.  So how does one keep all of these voices happy?  It is hard sometimes.  Picking the right people on the Board is one way and communicating often is the best way.  If staff and volunteers know what is going on they have less time to make things up or imagine the worse.  Talk with them, provide follow up, send a newsletter, keep the Board Chair in the loop, always! Being an Executive Director is the hardest job you will ever love.

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What can nonprofits really do?

“What’s important is how we use our time on this earth, not how conspicuously we give our money away. What’s important is the energy and courage we are willing to expend reversing entropy, battling cynicism, suffering and challenging mediocre minds, staring down those who would trample our dreams, taking a stand for magic, and advancing the potential of the human race.”


Nonprofit organizations in the United States are tasked with solving problems.  We do not pay taxes for the government to do this, in the US it is nonprofits.  Yet, those very organizations meant to solve problems are held to such unrealistic expectations of their overhead that very few problems get solved.  It is time for the sector to look at overhead.  What is reasonable, what can donors expect and how to make real change.  Until we tackle this problem in the sector, real magic cannot occur. ~ Dan Pallotta

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Magic Happens

Hard work isn’t magic, but hard work can create magic. If you believe in that sort of thing…

I do. I believe that if you follow a recipe you can create magic. If that recipe is focused on an organization that does good…then you can create nonprofit magic. 

I have built my career on turning organizations around. I have worked throughout many communities and organizations and I have taken many struggling operations to new heights. I have never done it alone, but I have always followed a recipe to build the right formula of staff and volunteers. When those two things come together and the staff and volunteers move in the same direction the organization can go to new heights.

Is it truly magic, no. But when it happens it is special and it feels like magic.

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